Jolly Holiday

So, I was listening to Jolly Holiday from the Mary Poppins soundtrack today. (Judge me if you will, but Julie Andrews and Dick Van Dyke are amazing) I was singing along (of course) and Julie and I got to this part (Mary singing to Bert): "....You'd never think of pressing your advantage, for bearance is the hallmark of your creed. A lady needn't fear when you are near, your sweet gentility is crystal clear!..."

How opposite is that in today's society. Men are not respected by other men and women alike if they aren't "manly", aggressive, or overly suggestive. Now, of course, this isn't everyone, but speaking broadly it applies. If a guy doesn't "press his advantage" the gal is left thinking that he isn't interested. Possibly not in women at all.

As far as bearance, everyone doesn't think too much of that when they are out drunk at the club. All actions can be crazy and blamed on alcohol. As far as "ladies fearing" that would be going a little far. Unless, of course, they are breaking into your house. But, some guys are VERY pushy. I've been in situations, both personal and professional, when people just keep pushing and pressing. Just let it go. She's not interested and is waiting for you to leave. Of course, initiating situations isn't a bad thing. We're talking about extreme situations.

I fear that gentlemen are a dying breed. Being sensitive isn't a bad thing. To all the gentlemen out there, I salute you for maintaining your bearing. Trust me, the ladies, do love you.